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Dating a man who has a son

If you and the woman are just trying to have sex then you should not be meeting her kids.

In the current day and age kids know what the hell is going on and that awkward feeling you get when she forces 12 yr old Johnny to go to bed so you all can make out on the couch is warranted.

It’s very obvious when we do this and kids read that stuff immediately.

Check his credentials: If you have a toddler or baby and the guy is okay with dating you, then this next step is important.Ladies listen, this man did not get used to a kid screaming like you did, he was not kept up nights tending to the crying and projectile poop, he isn’t seasoned in this.Above all else, including your want for a mate is your child’s safety.You have to cater to both on some level, especially if the child is a female herself.Engage the child in conversation when he/she’s around but make it natural conversation, not forced conversation.As I sat with my closest girlfriends on our routine girls’ night out (GNO) one Saturday evening, the suspense at the table didn’t go unnoticed.Prior to our meeting, I had mentioned that I had some news to share.Don’t go talking about the girl’s favorite band as if you listen to it, because she probably knows that you don’t and you will look like a fool trying to get in.You do not what to appear as if you are talking the kid up in order to score panty points with his/her momma.Wasn’t I the same person who vowed to never date a man with a child? There are other men who are single, childless and worth getting to know. I was up for the challenge, and decided to give it shot.Alas, I admit, those were my exact words, but those words were also spoken by a much younger and not so much wiser version of myself. Obviously, there are several issues to deal with when someone has a child. Do you think you’ll get jealous when you have to share him, and can’t throw a tantrum because you’ll ‘look bad’ for being jealous of a child? trying to pacify the mother so his relationship with his child isn’t affected, and keeping his ‘woman’ comfortable.

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